Dody,

I know exactly what you're referring to for the lady with the word minge, and it's an old term and not one to be used in polite company.

But you are losing me on minging. Other than that obsolete mingling definition that you're obviously not looking for.

Since there are several documented definitions of minging, could you provide a general field for us to explore further to narrow down the particular definition you want us to find?