RE:(to the uninformed reader, comments can be sugar-coated sufficient to hide the malicious intent behind them).
and so too, harsh sounding words aren't always as harsh as they sound!-- remember Faldage and Dr Bill's fake battles? some us cringed as they battled wits.. but it was all in good fun (at least for them if not for the rest of us.)
i will admit i had a bit of hidden agenda in starting this thread. i wanted us to be able to talk about some of things going on here, in more neutral way. and we have pretty much done that.
deconstructing and reading into post will always be done.. but i think we are getting to the point where it is a bit less destructive!
by bring out the topic as a general one, and not placing blame, we can begin to establish mutually agreed "terms" which we really never will mutually agree too!
We will always have some strife, some hidden agendas, some secret (and not so secret!) friendships, and battles. but we still can be civil, and work things out.
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