>that sucks

Why? Have I hit a raw nerve or merely doubted your national numeracy skills?

If you don't tell me, I'll not know not to do it again

Oops, just run that through the brain cell again. I expecting "sex", so you can see my problem! only a slight intonation difference between sucks and sex, sucks sounds more like Norther Ireland to me, I thought that Kiwi was more like "seeks".