I don't feel that I can tolerate any more of the public "did too/did not" types of posts

Second that emotion. Jackie, thy will be done.

And may I propose that if one feels (s)he simply must say "did not" or the like, that in lieu of long contention (which may engender counter-contention), we invent a simple one-word term to be used for the purpose? For which term I acronymically proffer WEED, standing for We Each Edit Discord.