I think we need to give people the benefit of the doubt when something is said that could be offensive. It can be hard to say what you mean concisely and without spending too much time on it. As mentioned elsewhere on the Board, there is ambiguity in almost any sentence. I've said some clumsy things in my time here, hoping that others would assume the best ()! If someone says something that bothers you, ask for clarification.
I do think we should keep the language and jokes at least moderately clean, especially knowing that there are some young members on board.

There, I've put my two cents in...