Well, I was. And I also tried to keep it on topic. Then the definition came out buried in The List of Male Priveleges: "6. Male Gaze - Men's sexual perspective, embraced by society, normalizes ..."

After that, I decided to respond to comments such as "but I don't think he really wants to know the answer!... If he would only look ..." etc. You know, participate in the discussion that everybody else was having.

Hope I haven't caused any offense.