Sounds like Gardner and Goleman, of "emotional intelligence" fame, are on the same wave length, Wordwind.

One of the major missing parts in the success equation is emotional intelligence, a concept made popular by the groundbreaking book by Daniel Goleman, which is based on years of research by numerous scientists such as Peter Salovey, John Meyer, Howard Gardner, Robert Sternberg and Jack Block, just to name a few. For various reasons and thanks to a wide range of abilities, people with high emotional intelligence tend to be more successful in life than those with lower EIQ even if their classical IQ is average.

There is an "Emotional Intelligence Test" at this link:

http://www.queendom.com/tests/iq/emotional_iq_r2_access.html