Welcome erex. This is an intersting question. I'm looking forward to seeing everybody's input.

As to my two-cents...

I have a friend who used to use the word "domesticated" to mean a woman who has become proficient as a wife. It irked me no end, since she was a feminist zealot and meant it as an insult (even the sweetest words can be used as isults when said in a certain way) but I'm not sure it was quite wrong.

What do you all think?