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Having been travelling across the US (in both directions), Sandra and I have noticed one very interesting linguistic trait. It's s-o-o-o-o important, I thought I'd better get your take(s) on it.

When you say "thank you" in restaurants or shops in the west, the instant response from service industry people is "You're welcome". As we move further east, this is gradually being replaced by "Mmmm - mmmm". Yesterday in Arkansas, it was about 50/50.

Any thoughts? Is everyone in the east totally syllabically challenged?



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I have heard "Mmm-Hmm" as an alternative to "you're welcome," but the traditional "you're welcome" is usually the rule here in Vermont, anyway. A friend visiting from NYC last weekend was taken aback when the drive-thru attendant at a fast-food place said "you're welcome" as we pulled away. He nearly fainted when I told him that the people who work at the Department of Motor Vehicles are courteous and helpful.


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Actually, NY's DMV had gotten to be very nice-- fast, effecient service.. (no thank you's yet-- but in and out in under 30 minutes-- and i don't need a thank you.. )It used to take days to get new plates or a driver licence. Really, more than once, i had to make 2 trips to get something done--combine that with travel time, and a 1 to 2 hour wait on line.. it was days.

But the Parking Violations is still g** awful! and should you ever get your car towed-- well, when you die, you will go straight on to heaven-- since you will have already serverd time in HELL!


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Actually, NY's DMV had gotten to be very nice-- fast, effecient service.. (no thank you's yet-- but in and out in under 30 minutes-- and i don't need a thank you.. )It used to take days to get new plates or a driver licence. Really, more than once, i had to make 2 trips to get something done--combine that with travel time, and a 1 to 2 hour wait on line.. it was days.

But the Parking Violations is still g** awful! and should you ever get your car towed-- well, when you die, you will go straight on to heaven-- since you will have already served time in HELL!


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In N.H. you hear "you're welcome" or sometimes just "welcome."
In Maine I have heard the ubiquitous "Ay-yuh" as a recognition of your thanks.
Alert Those not born to the use and the many inflections for the varied meanings of Ay-yuh should not attempt to use it!




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Around here, if someone was thanking you perfunctorily, you'd always say 'you're welcome', but if the person was expressing sincere gratitude (eg: Thanks for picking me up; i really appreciate it) the more common response would be "No worries" (or "No problem").


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"Any thoughts? Is everyone in the east totally syllabically challenged?"

Dear CK Having spent most of my life in small town New England, my impression is that the behaviour to which you refer is a fairly typical tendency to laconicism.


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typical tendency to laconicism

Ay-yu'.


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wwh >>typical tendency to laconicism

faldage >> Ay-yu'

Just hadda' try, dincha ...


if the person was expressing sincere gratitude (eg: Thanks for picking me up; i really appreciate it) the more common response would be "No worries" or "No problem".
Re sincere gratitude : In response : "No problem" ... or "Not a bit of it" ... or "Don't be silly" ... or "My pleasure" ... or "Think nothing of it."

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typical tendency to laconicism

Ay-yu'

Just hadda' try, dincha ...

Ay-eh'




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