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It is incomplete to say that some people achieve happiness by making other people unhappy. (Expressed another way, to love to hate is not a form of love.) It is more precisely correct to say that some people enjoy a momentary feeling of power and/or importance by making other people unhappy. Many psychologists working to help such folks move promptly to the issues of impotence, powerlessness and low self-esteem which underpin this sort of behaviour, rather than dwelling on the behaviour itself.

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I know somebody like that FS. Whenever somebody is feeling particularly happy, she always manages to say something seemingly benign that is hurtful. It'll be a little comment, that looks like a compliment, but isn't, like, "How nice that you can still pull off that hemline even if it is really out of fashion."

She looks really confident, but when you really get to know her, you find that she has really low self-esteem.

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Who said anything about achieving happiness by making other people unhappy?

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Who said anything about achieving happiness by making other people unhappy?




I think it was Sigmund Freud's nephew Chad N. Freud that wrote a book about that.

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I think it was Sigmund Freud's nephew Chad N. Freud that wrote a book about that.

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Here's an interesting angle on the whole church and state argument that I found in an ancient tome on English common law:

(Click here for article; warning -- it's kinda long and complicated)

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Hoodwinked me, you did.


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