Yes! Here's the link to our previous, and wonderful, discussion of jealousy and envy. Check particularly the posts of my long-lost (sob) Nicholas and my beloved Father Steve.
http://wordsmith.org/board/showflat.pl?Cat=&Board=words&Number=28363

P.S.--If anyone feels it's worth bringing that thread back up to the top, go ahead and make a post in it. I'd love to see it all again, but won't make everyone go through it if I'm the only one who'd like to.