Jo,
I agree with your thoughts on tolerance. I was telling
someone the other day that I am much more accepting now
than I used to be, and that I guess it is a function of
aging. Though I can still get riled up about certain
things not being done the "right" way!

Thanks also for your gentle hints and reminders! A friend told me, "If we gave only grace, what else would the
world know?". That seems to be a workable philosophy to me.

We'll see whether you have the last 'word'. Ha!