Oh, my dear Fishonabike!
No Wise Old Woman would ever want a heart of stone ... it is the listening and loving heart that helps *make us wise.

It's just that at 73 I am sorta "over" that Cupid's Arrow nonsense ... give me a deep, kind hearted, clear thinking man with a keen sense of the absurd over a "stud" any time.

If we had met I am sure we would have our heads together over something interesting while enjoying a home made French Vanilla iced coffee! At least till the sun was over the yardarm - - somewhere.

Anytime you're in the neighborhood!