I'm used to hearing the phrase "Dapper Dan". If asked I would've professed to thinking that it was ONLY appropriate for describing men.

I think of dapper as suit and tie, hair nicely combed (none of those wild youngun gel waves) and sophisticated in speech and manner.

Living here in Central Alabama I haven't encountered any use of the word in years!!!! Sorry, milum - I don't suppose we've met yet or perhaps I would have.