i said it private, and i'll say it public.
No one is perfect.. some months ago, when ModessGodess joined us, in the middle of a flame war, she took sides.. for the past ten days, 2 weeks, she has been making word post, and keeping out of the fray.  
she is not the problem here... we know who the problem is.. 
so if you have something specific to say about her behavior, say it, but its not fair to keep harping on her past mistakes.. in fact to do so, makes you just like this other guy who posts here, who is obnoxious, and unwelcome. 
there is no rule about making objects-- and i'm here i am objecting!  I have objected in the past, both privately, and publicly to MG, and will object again, to anyone, but i think its very unfair to single her out right now, when she hasn't provoked it.  
she has tried to 1) be possitive, (something i have trouble managing) and 2) make word posts, (that, like Dr Bills and mine are ignored, or subverted into chatty, gossipy, sex talk.) enough.  there are real problems here.  they are  hard enought to fix, with out making new ones.