SilkMuse,

since you have chosen not to accept private messages, then I shall have to post here in public:

There is only one person here with a hidden agenda, and that is your friend, who shall remain nameless. The rest of us are coping as we can. Ask him about his threat to nuke the board. Ask any of us what he has done to hurt us. Ask why such an extraordinary, unprecedented step as banning had to be taken. And if you still have any doubts, I recommend you read "I'm OK, You're OK," before you jump to any more conclusions. Thanks.