Dear Angel,

That is so sad to read--your friend dying because he neglected to take care of himself!

It seems that we do tend to look the other way when we should be vigilant. On the other hand, we're often afraid of being busy bodies--interfering when we have no business interfering. But a husband? Yeah, a husband has the responsibility to know how his wife is feeling. You work so hard in bringing yourselves together when courting, and then you marry, and too often all effort stops. That's the case too often as I've observed.