A dark and angry man has controlled me for the last ten years (yes i'm a slow learner.) And just in the last year have I learned this lesson. Every time I faced him was with fear and anger. My friends encouraged me to stand up for myself. But anger and displays of force were not the answer. My whole life had become a reflection of the fear and anger I felt. Now when I see him it's with love in my heart. The way he treated me was wrong and I will not subject myself to it again but when I reflected his anger I wasn't choosing, I was letting him control me. When I don't let the fear and anger control me, it's amazing the difference in our interaction, and by consequence the rest of my life. While I'm not sure I'd like to test my changing attitude by falling out of a large building, I can certainly say I agree with "Michael".