Somebody's mother never taught them that if you don't have something nice to say - don't bother saying anything. They also have never had any psycology classes which teach "Only an insecure person will say negative things about others to boost up their own egos. The main objective to remember is if you don't like what is being discussed - go to another posting. There are literally hundreds of discussions to view - past & present. I can't imagine too many folks have read them all.