My deepest condolences, mav. I can only echo the advice given so far. I know from personal experience the devastation that cancer leaves behind. I lost my father when he was in his late 60s about 25 years ago and a very good friend in his 30s just recently. Truly, the care of the son will be the hardest task. I wish you well in the weeks ahead. It will all pass in time but it will leave you changed forever.