!!!!!!!!!!! Since I made my other post, the spacespider site has gone to avatars and wallpaper: NO smileys in sight! WAIL--I've never seen that mouth-dropping one anywhere else.

EDIT: I tried right-clicking on my image above, clicked on Open link in that menu, and was taken to a new site--which did have this one. (Whew.) Now to try your advice:
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Nope; I tried it the normal* way, and your way. Still have the box. :-(
*That is, the way I normally do it!