I believe calling it "other peoples mail" would exclude me, too, but my eyes have seen the glory. No gang bang. No monitor. A bit of sticking up for AnnaS I s'pose... but that's just kneejerk. Open kneejerk, because it seems to be a bit in the open. After AnnaS comment, I'd expect something more gentlemanly like "Ooops, I guess you have a point", but now I guess my expectations are way off.