I'll defer to the ladies who probably have more experience on this one! You mean, the ones who've been pregnant more times than you have?

Hi, vino, and welcome aBoard. "Congratulations" is the short-and-sweet route; however, not every mother-to-be is happy about that circumstance, and in the instances where I've suspected that might be the case, I just say, "I hope everything goes well".

Edit: vino, what is that icon you used, and how did you get it, please?

Edit 2: !! Now, what I saw earlier has turned into a book! The other thing looked, as best I can describe it, like a drawing of a yellow car battery with a 3 in it.