I see BY's original post has now become the gift that keeps on giving.

My changing of the subject line (as I like to do on my posts... if one hadn't noticed) *seemed to fit the words BY gave... and thanks for the comment AnnaS!

Or would you have a masochistic and self-hating person do unto you that which they would have done to themselves?

I'd like my words to remain exactly as I intended them, please, (even following your "golden rule") - humorously, descriptive of and hailing the well put words (question) of belligerentyouth. Pardon me if I failed in any of my intent.