Yes, desublimation was a brilliant move. It sunk right into my soul and provided rest. It was the right word.

On an aside, from the outside, your conversations are like reading the Dialogues of the philosophers of old. Refreshing, insightful, and loads of fun. As Wet Willie said: 'Keep on smilin.'

By the way, is there a page where I can get the codes to make the smiley faces? And the cool blue text?