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`Oh, fishing for a compliment!' sang Katie."
Now that's a phrase I know and understand. The most common and blatant (is that the right word?) way to fish for a compliment is toask "How do I look?" Another way is one I used blatantly (exactly the right word) when I told one and all on Feb 1oth that it was my 75th birthday. I was fishing for the compliment that goes : " You're kidding! You sure don't look it!" Quite different from a "tade-last I think. ??
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Well, wow, I can tell you this--you are one neat lady, and I'm privileged to know you! [HUG]
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Didja manage to come up with something suitable? >>I did say I'd rather die Than speak a lie
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Sometimes, wow, people fish for a compliment using the bait of self-belittlement. One of the most common being reference to past "I used to look quite good during undergraduate" expecting "You're still ravishing". How would you treat such anglers?
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I'd say it depends raju.
If the person is looking melancholy and needs a quick pick-me-up, then compliment away.
If the person is a fun-loving sort with a good sense of humour, you can always say "Really??? What happened?"
If it's somebody you don't particularly care about, I'd say nothing.
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well said Bel- and that's some deserved compliment!
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"I used to look quite good during undergraduate" expecting "You're still ravishing". How would you treat such anglers? I will opt for the pleasantry as it may just be that it is needed. Heaven knows we all need a pick-me-up now and then.
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