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#117224 12/07/2003 5:47 PM
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A word I like, but seldom see displayed. Women's lib is OK,
but a young lady who can speak demurely is too rare now.

Webster's 1913 Dictionary

Definition: \De*mure"\, a. [Perh. from OF. de murs (i. e., de bonnes
murs of good manners); de of + murs, mours, meurs, mors, F.
m?urs, fr. L. mores (sing. mos) manners, morals (see
{Moral}); or more prob. fr. OF. me["u]r, F. m[^u]r mature,
ripe (see {Mature}) in a phrase preceded by de, as de m[^u]re
conduite of mature conduct.]
1. Of sober or serious mien; composed and decorous in
bearing; of modest look; staid; grave.

Sober, steadfast, and demure. --Milton.

Nan was very much delighted in her demure way, and
that delight showed itself in her face and in her
clear bright eyes. --W. Black.

2. Affectedly modest, decorous, or serious; making a show of
gravity.

A cat lay, and looked so demure, as if there had
been neither life nor soul in her. --L'Estrange.

Miss Lizzy, I have no doubt, would be as demure and
coquettish, as if ten winters more had gone over her
head. --Miss
Mitford.


\De*mure"\, v. i.
To look demurely. [Obs.] --Shak.






#117225 12/25/2003 10:03 AM
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In reply to:

Nan was very much delighted in her demure way, and
that delight showed itself in her face and in her
clear bright eyes. --W. Black.


Interesting. Very much delighted--and showing it all in her eyes--body under control. Completely. But not the windows to the soul.

Thanks for demurely. I never knew it meant fundamentally 'of good manners' although I had the sense of the word.

There are those rare beings whose bearing is demure for whom I hold great admiration, but as many as I can think of whom I admire for being demure, just as many come to mind who are anything but and I love them just as much for their unbridled enthusiasm and outlandishness.


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From Iolanthe, The Nightmare Song:

SONG-LORD CHANCELLOR.
"When you're lying awake with a dismal headache, and repose is taboo'd by anxiety,
I conceive you may use any language you choose to indulge in, without impropriety;
For your brain is on fire - the bedclothes conspire of usual slumber to plunder you:
First your counterpane goes, and uncovers your toes, and your sheet slips demurely from under you..."



#117227 12/25/2003 8:07 PM
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Lord, that poem sounds all the world like menopausal night sweats to me!


#117228 12/26/2003 2:06 AM
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demurely slipping sheet indeed....if I were in the throes of something like that, I would have viciously yanked the sheet and mangled it!

Sorry wwh...but we *do seem to have lost all sense of decorum and demureness..(scuffing toes)

Any relation to demur?


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demure is related to Latin mos (singular),mores = customs,manners

demur is related to Latin mora = delay, be unwilling to agree,take exception to



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