clearing everything up at once (excepting the "oneself"), I copy this from Dorland's medical dictionary:

scopophilia (sco·po·phil·ia) (sko-po-fil˘e-[schwa]) [Gr. skopein to view + -philia] 1. voyeurism; the derivation of sexual pleasure from looking at another's genital organs (active s.). 2. exhibitionism; the desire to be looked at by others (passive s.).

scopophobia (sco·po·pho·bia) (sko˛po-fo˘be-[schwa]) [Gr. skopein to view + -phobia] irrational fear of being seen.

scoptophilia (scop·to·phil·ia) (skop˛to-fil˘e-[schwa]) scopophilia.

scoptophobia (scop·to·pho·bia) (skop˛to-fo˘be-[schwa]) scopophobia.