Has the person who has as of yet tried to withhold his/her gender finally revealed it? I don't know of any females who wear boxers

Jazz, I "came out" some weeks ago, after taking up jmh's very kind offer of counselling.
In any case, I had given so many strong indications of my masculinity that it was not a breathtaking shock to anyone, I guess.
And the reference, above, to Victor Sylvester, whose speciality was providing strict tempo music for ballroom dancing, should make it fairly plain - at least to people this side of the pond!
(Actually, I suppose it would be fairly obscure to those of you in USofA - I don't think V.S. was well known over there - and certainly not to anyone who is now under fifty!)