Jazzy dear. If, as you say, your written posts do not always accurately convey what you were thinking, it might be a good idea to write them in Word first, and then reread them. I do that quite often. I find that by rereading myself I can shorten the post and clarify what I want to get across.

You may not have noticed but your previous post came out as extremely condescending. Read it over and you will see that I am right. Unfortunately, because of the format of this forum, we cannot see the expressions behind the posts and must rely on the information provided. That is why it is important to make sure what you write is what you mean to get across.

Words can hurt sweetie. If you sting someone you have to expect they will sting back. No one can know you didn’t mean to do so.