Ted, I remember your post, too. And I can't find it, either, though I've tried every Search I can think of. At first I thought maybe the Search function only went back through a limited period of time, but then I found:

TEd Remington
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Mon Nov 27 13:37:16 2000
207.133.65.245
Re: Arthur or Martha?

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>not knowing if it were Arthur or Martha

Reminds me of this lovely lady I dated in college. Her name was Carmen Cohen. Her mum called her Carmen and her father called her Cohen. Sometimes she didn't know if she was Carmen or Cohen.
This was using Search on Carmen. I'm gonna keep tryin'--this kind of thing drives me crazy! The only sure way to find it would be to go through all your old posts, and sorry, 'tain't worth it to me! :-)