are you sure that right, TEd? RE:Actually is an old misprint, and was originally a reference to over-eager brides jumping the groom.

i thought we went down that path last month, when we discussed riding broom sticks..
http://wordsmith.org/board/showflat.pl?Cat=&Board=announcements&Number=82694&

and i thought one of the ideas behind marriage was making the need for a broom obsolete?

but now we are acting like the customs of wedding nights, when guest would bang pots and pans, and make other noise to distract the bride and groom...and being all to bawdy..
surely we can do better with wedding words..