I take tea to the adult discussion group every Sunday and when I realized that one couple preferred coffee i started taking a thermos of coffee as well. They were appreciative but since I don't drink it I make coffee badly. I asked for advice and each week got a friendly critique: use finer grounds, make it stronger or whatever.
One week Ronda said "This is perfect. You've finally got the coffee just right. Whatever you did this morning keep doing it just the same way."
So I do - I stop at 7-eleven every morning and buy a thermosful of coffee.


PS I vote with the padre, "white chocolate" is a contradiction in terms.