What’s with the pissing contest guys? Sheesh. Is it too difficult to voice opinions without attacking the person we’re arguing with?

Or am I completely missing that jabbing/joking thing that guys do sometimes? “You’re a jerk.” “No, you’re a jerk.” “Ha! Wanna beer.” “Sure.” I ask this because at one point, somebody thought I was a guy and starting joking with me in an aggressive/fake insulting way and my feelings were hurt (which was not the intention of the person).

So, I don't want to be misinterpreting the situation around here since I've seldom had a chance to pop in and maybe I am completely misreading the thing.