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#180673 - 12/04/08 07:25 AM at my sister's, of my sister's.
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Loc: Netherlands, the Hague Here's a little thing I longtime wanted to ask. You say:
I will be at my sister's.
She's a friend of my sister's.
In the first sentence this seems clearly to mean: "At my sister's " house or place.
The second form always struck me as odd. "a friend of my sister's" ... what?
Maybe I am making mistakes here, but I just would like to know the details about this. (thanks)
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#180674 - 12/04/08 08:16 AM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: BranShea]
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#180676 - 12/04/08 08:35 AM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: zmjezhd]
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Loc: Vermont I would just say "a friend of my sister." no possessive.
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#180679 - 12/04/08 10:10 AM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: Buffalo Shrdlu]
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Loc: Netherlands, the Hague Thanks both of you's.Then it wás my old school English that put it in my head like that. It is simply oldfashioned, allright. A friend of my sister, just like that from now on.
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#180685 - 12/04/08 03:53 PM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: BranShea]
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Loc: Dallas, TX ... and "my sister's friend".
It works well for "friend" (possibly due to the assumption the friend relationship is reciprocal?). but "A picture of my sister" might depict my sister and belong to me or anyone, while "a picture of my sister's" would show anything and belong to her.
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#180686 - 12/04/08 05:48 PM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: Myridon]
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Loc: Netherlands, the Hague Ha, yes, I see. I see . There is a difference in meaning when you consider the picture sentence. But what is odd is the 's'.
A picture of my sister's. The s looks like a leftover from his.
"My sister his picture". But then my sister is a her. Then I do understand you can't write or say " my sister'r picture".
You could say though: "my brother's picture = " my brother his picture", hey ho ! Sinking deeper and deeper in the mud.
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#180688 - 12/04/08 08:11 PM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: BranShea]
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Posts: 12381 Originally Posted By: BranShea
A picture of my sister's. The s looks like a leftover from his.
"My sister his picture". But then my sister is a her. Then I do understand you can't write or say " my sister'r picture".
You could say though: "my brother's picture = " my brother his picture"
This is a commonly held misunderstanding of the origin of the 's possesive marker in English. It really comes from one of the most common OE inflexional endings for the genitive singular.
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#180694 - 12/04/08 10:55 PM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: BranShea]
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Loc: Tasmania The only basic mistake you're making Bran is to expect logic or consistency from the English language!
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#180723 - 12/06/08 06:28 PM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: The Pook]
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Loc: Land of Flat River This reminds me of the discussion of earlier this year concerning where do Churches come up with things like: " at
St. Bernard's". St. Bernard is dead, cannot be a possessive.
Yet even at the Vatican it is St. Peter's Basilica, in London it is St. Paul's. Someone mentioned the 'genitive' case above: which
as I understand it, indicates 'possession', yet a dead saint cannot possess a Church, etc.etc.etc. I like Pook's comment: don't expect consistence in the English language.
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#180724 - 12/06/08 10:03 PM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: LukeJavan8]
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Posts: 12381 Yep, we've been through this before. The genitive covers more than just possession, despite the modern tendency to call it the possessive. You might say, for example, my brother's parole officer. Doesn't mean you brother owns the parole officer.
As to questions about a friend of my sister's, ask yourself this: Would you say a friend of me or a friend of mine.
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#180739 - 12/08/08 01:29 PM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: Faldage]
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Loc: Netherlands, the Hague OK. None of the languages is consistantly logic,I guess. Right. Of mine is funny too. Better drop the thing then as more and more of these illogical things will turn up.
How can language be logic as we aren't either. (not wanting to offend the totally logic person, whoever he/she might be, on this board )
I still have a totally unreliable computer situation. So I salute you all. Till the next five mites may turn up.
Edited by BranShea (12/08/08 01:30 PM)
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#180742 - 12/08/08 07:48 PM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: BranShea]
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Posts: 12381 I thought of another example of the genitive not indicating possession:
"There is a red Ford pickup truck in the parking lot blocking access to the loading area. Will the truck's owner please report to customer service."
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#180743 - 12/08/08 08:12 PM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: Faldage]
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Loc: western NY So, the parking lot is blocking access to the loading area? Why is the truck taking the blame?
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#180747 - 12/09/08 06:22 AM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: twosleepy]
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Posts: 12381 Originally Posted By: twosleepySo, the parking lot is blocking access to the loading area? Why is the truck taking the blame?![]()
Uh-huh. What's the word for someone who exhibits willful misunderstanding?
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#180748 - 12/09/08 07:42 AM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: Faldage]
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Loc: Vermont Originally Posted By: FaldageOriginally Posted By: twosleepySo, the parking lot is blocking access to the loading area? Why is the truck taking the blame?![]()
Uh-huh. What's the word for someone who exhibits willful misunderstanding?
Faldage?
/snicker
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#180760 - 12/09/08 12:12 PM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: Faldage]
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Loc: Land of Flat River I like that 'truck's owner' genitive. Good one.
And: would it be "my friend and me went to the store".
Me went to the store????
We have definitely been thru this before.
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#180761 - 12/09/08 12:12 PM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: LukeJavan8]
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Loc: Land of Flat River You guys must do this all day long to become "carpal tunnel".
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#180770 - 12/09/08 01:09 PM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: LukeJavan8]
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Loc: Netherlands, the Hague Well Javaneight, I don't think me ever made seven posts a day.
But it ìs a somewhat addictive business.
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#180773 - 12/09/08 02:27 PM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: LukeJavan8]
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Loc: Vermont Originally Posted By: LukeJavan8You guys must do this all day long to become "carpal tunnel".
heh
I've been here 5 and a half years, so... it adds up.
:¬ )
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#180779 - 12/09/08 07:16 PM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: Buffalo Shrdlu]
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Posts: 12381 Originally Posted By: etaoinOriginally Posted By: FaldageOriginally Posted By: twosleepySo, the parking lot is blocking access to the loading area? Why is the truck taking the blame?![]()
Uh-huh. What's the word for someone who exhibits willful misunderstanding?
Faldage?
/snicker
Uh-huh.
So lessee, how could I have worded it so y'all couldn't possibly distort the meaning. The original was:Quote:"There is a red Ford pickup truck in the parking lot blocking access to the loading area."
How about :
"There is a red Ford pickup truck blocking access to the loading area in the parking lot."
No, that makes it sound like the loading area is in the parking lot.
How about:
"In the parking lot there is a red Ford pickup truck blocking access to the loading area."
Well, that's a little awkward, isn't it.
How about:
"There is a red Ford pickup truck in the parking lot blocking access to the loading area."
Yeah, that's it. Wait a minute, that's the original. Hmm.
And who's blaming anyone, or thing?
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#180785 - 12/09/08 08:09 PM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: Faldage]
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Loc: western NY "There is a red Ford pickup truck in the parking lot, blocking access to the loading area."
Works for me...
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#180787 - 12/09/08 09:10 PM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: twosleepy]
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Posts: 12381 You got it! And you can easily hear the comma over the mall's public address system, too.
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#180794 - 12/09/08 10:21 PM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: Faldage]
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Loc: western NY "There is a red Ford pickup truck blocking access to the loading area."
There.
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#180796 - 12/09/08 10:29 PM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: Faldage]
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Loc: कहीं &... Originally Posted By: FaldageI thought of another example of the genitive not indicating possession:
"There is a red Ford pickup truck in the parking lot blocking access to the loading area. Will the truck's owner please report to customer service."
This reminded me of a recent post at LanguageLog
Believed to be an F-18
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#180800 - 12/10/08 06:28 AM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: latishya]
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Posts: 12381 Originally Posted By: latishya
Another case where it seems to me to be a lot of effort involved in misunderstanding it.
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#180808 - 12/10/08 11:28 AM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: Faldage]
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Loc: Land of Flat River As long as it is not my red truck blocking anything, I'm Ok with it.
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#180809 - 12/10/08 11:30 AM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: LukeJavan8]
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Loc: Land of Flat River Thanks you guys for your responses on Carpal Tunnel.
I go to this sight before opening any of my daily emails. I see what you mean by addictive. By the way, I hear there is a
Computerusers Anonymous, similar to AA.
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#180818 - 12/10/08 03:04 PM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: Faldage]
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Loc: कहीं &... Originally Posted By: FaldageOriginally Posted By: latishya
Another case where it seems to me to be a lot of effort involved in misunderstanding it.
When I read that piece I thought the misunderstanding was deliberate and for humorous effect rather than nitpicking.
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#180819 - 12/10/08 04:21 PM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: latishya]
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Loc: Land of Flat River I think I may be missing something Latishya, I just read the
piece you referred to re; the Fl8. And now they have found another victim. But referring the reporting by the media. I have found that they hardly ever use correct grammar. But it is mostly hype anyway, just to sell their story for more advertising money, witnessed by some phrase like "first exclusively reported here on this station". So I am not surprised by anything the media say.
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#181525 - 01/07/09 07:53 AM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: Faldage]
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Loc: Orlando Originally Posted By: FaldageOriginally Posted By: latishya
Another case where it seems to me to be a lot of effort involved in misunderstanding it.
Working closely with US Air Force pilots, they often "become one with the aircraft" and feel the ship is just an extension of their human body!!_________________________
"I am certain there is too much certainty in the world" -Michael Crichton
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#181533 - 01/07/09 12:24 PM Re: at my sister's, of my sister's. [Re: ParkinT]
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I believe it, emotional attachment.
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