I'd like to compile a list of phrases used to describe the alpha being of a group.
My all time favourite is one I heard Zig Ziglar use (I presume it's a good ol' boy saying?) - "The Daddy Rabbit"
Also have:
The Big Knob
The Grand Poo Bah
The Head Sharrang (etymology??)
The Big Cohuna
The Big Cheese
The Main Man
The Man (or M.A.N.)
What about some female examples?
stales
just a note -- I believe that the Big Kahuna comes from the personification of the Hawaiian word kahuna into the god of surfing and thus should be properly spelt in that manner.
Onliest female one I can think of off hand is Boss Lady.
Head Honcho (or Honchette)
BMOC (Edit: BMOC = Big Man On Campus)
Capo de Tuti Capi
Mush Dog
Bell Camel
Leader of the Pack
Bull Male
Boss Man (or Big Boss Man)
Top Banana
on the feminine side:
Belle of the Ball
Keiva - "BMOC" ????????????
stales
Can anyone confirm that US black-slang used to include the term HNIC, standing for "Head Negro in Charge"? ("negro" being here a more-polite version of the word actually used)
One used in the military a lot: HMFIC. Head Mother-f***er In Charge.
The Alpha ______ (fill in the blank; Wolf is the original version)
The Alpha ______
I've pertnear allus seen that blank filled in with Male, the wolf or whatever being assumed from the species of discourse. Even in the case of humans the term has always been Alpha Male. However I have also seen Alpha Female as we slowly have come to discover that some species are matriarchal, e.g., an elephant herd will have an alpha female. In some cases there will be a hierarchy of females even in a patriarchal species and there will be an alpha female in those species. This can get complicated by the tendency of some patriarchal species to have the alpha female get her power from her relationship with the alpha male and in vice versa in some matriarchal species.
Keiva asked: Can anyone confirm that US black-slang used to include the term HNIC, standing for "Head Negro in Charge"? ("negro" being here a more-polite version of the word actually used)
Indeed, this is true. There was a recent uproar when an article in Boston magazine about Harvard professor Henry Louis Gates Jr. was titled "Head Negro in Charge." Many objected to the obvious (to some) paraphrase of a very insulting and denigrating moniker.
Wife
(and I have Peggy's permission to post this!)
Better half.
This isn't very specific®, is it?
When i was a kid it was Big Sister
I have heard a woman in charge being called "the Queen Bee"
the Duncster