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Posted By: vika Q1 - 06/21/02 08:06 PM
Is it possible to say about somebody who is ready to help and does not hide his emotions an “open person”? What would be the opposite to the “open person”?


Posted By: wwh Re: Q1 - 06/21/02 08:43 PM
Dear Vika: some people are "stolid" meaning they show little emotion, but may not even be hiding any.
British upper class members pride themselves on being reserved and having a stiff upper lip, and feel superior to people who reveal their emothons. Yankees pride themselves on understatement, and in general are not comfortable with emotional displays. I know what you mean by an "open person" but perhaps some of our other members might have suggestions for improvement on that. At the moment I cannot think of one. Bill

Posted By: modestgoddess Re: Q1 - 06/25/02 05:30 AM
Hey Vika - to call such a person an "open book" might be more appropriate, although that phrase does not also encompass the meaning of being ready to help. It merely suggests that such a person is easy to read - he hides nothing.

You might say someone who shows his feelings easily "wears his heart on his sleeve." That, again, simply means he hides nothing - he shows all that is in his heart.

I can't think of any slang or vernacular expression that means both "ready to help" and "doesn't hide emotions" at the same time. O, wait a minute - you might say someone is an "eager beaver." That generally connotes someone who is very willing and ready to help, and may also be very open and even a bit naive. I always think of "eager beavers" as being people who may be easily hurt, because they are so eager and genuine, and they rush in where angels fear to tread.

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