What is the word for a overly compliant or complementary husband to his wife? I have seen it before but cannot recall

Henpecked is one word. There is another, more vulgar, term.
http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/pussywhipped

That is one word but there is another. I also heard of overly fawning over ones own wife as the definition. Still looking.

Is the adjective uxorious?

and uxoriousness : [n] excessive submissiveness to one's wife

edit: some related words
meacock - (obsolete) An uxorious, effeminate, or spiritless man
uxorodespotism - wifely tyranny link

Uxorious is the word thanks>!

uxorodespotism Hey, I kinda like the sound of that!